We were mentioned on Martha Stewart Weddings!

We are thrilled to have been mentioned in an article on Martha Stewart Weddings! Thank you, Jenn Sinrich!

http://www.marthastewartweddings.com/614140/who-makes-decisions-when-parents-pay-for-the-wedding

(reposted from www.marthastewartweddings.com)

MAY 12, 2017

Who Gets the Final Say in Wedding Planning When Your Parents Are Paying?

Whose wedding is it anyway?

Contributing Writer
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Photography by: Rachel Thurston

Ahh, wedding planning. It’s one of the most joyous and exciting times in your life, but it’s also stressful and exhausting. Planning your dream wedding almost always involves working together with your parents (and maybe even your fiancé’s parents) to get the job done. The only thing that can complicate things even more? Who’s paying. “When engaged couples have a certain vision for their wedding, but the parents are paying, there can be some tension involved,” says Kimberly Lehman, wedding and event planner at Love, Laughter & Elegance in Massillon, Ohio. So what exactly do your parents have the say over and what’s left in your control when they’re writing the checks? We asked three wedding planners to weigh in.

 

TIMES TO INVOLVE YOUR PARENTS IN WEDDING PLANNING

 

Parents do have a say when it comes to venue.

If they’re paying, this is likely the biggest expense they will have throughout the entire process. That being said, it’s important that the couple is happy with the choice in venue. “You may go back and forth about certain aspects of the venue, but ultimately you should come to a compromise,” says Myriam Michel, owner of Boston-based M&M Elite Events. “For example, if the bride and groom are leaning more towards one venue, maybe give the parents more leeway to choose the food you serve.”

 

Parents don’t have a say in ceremony or vows.

It doesn’t get more personal or intimate than the ceremony and vows. “The support of a couple’s family is of the utmost importance, however, at the end of the day, the couple should decide what they say (and don’t say) in their vows,” says Lauren Chitwood, wedding and corporate event planner and owner of Lauren Chitwood Events in Louisville, Kentucky.

 

Parents do have a say in the wording of the invitation.

When Mom and Dad are paying, they’re technically the hosts, which means they should be comfortable with the invitation that’s being sent out. “It’s important to work closely with parents on the invitation, as it sets the tone for your wedding and is sent to the entire guest list,” says Chitwood. “I strongly advise my clients to work with a credible stationer to navigate politics of how to word an invitation, especially when divorced families are involved.”

 

Parents don’t have a say in the attire of the bridal party.

The bride’s wedding dress and the bridesmaids’ dresses are personal decisions. While they often end up being a collective decision because the bride wants input from her friends and family, she’s the only one who should have final say here. “The bride should be able to choose the dress she wants and how she wants her bridesmaids to look on her wedding day,” explains Chitwood. “That being said, I’ve never to see a bride make this decision alone—ultimately, parents, family and friends help her decide on attire.”

 

Parents do have a say with the wedding guest list.

“I think it’s important that hosts have a strong say with the length and composition of the guest list, however, the couple has the right to determine the size and scope of their wedding,” explains Chitwood. In other words, if the couple wants a small, intimate wedding, the hosts should grant that wish. “Inviting business contacts and family friends can be very important to hosts but doing so should not dramatically go against a couple’s wishes on wedding size.”

Tabitha and Jason -A Love Story

One of our favorite, and most memorable couples that we have worked with over the course of our career is Tabitha and Jason.  They had a very strong love and a care for each other that transcends time and physical bonds.  We felt that their story deserved to be shared.  Women’s Health Magazine online featured their story this month.  Please keep the tissues handy.

 

http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/planning-wedding-partner-has-terminal-cancer

 

 

Day of Wedding Coordination Giveaway!

img_20161203_191019***Special Announcement!***

We are giving away a FREE Day of Coordination Package to one Lucky Couple! May be applied to any wedding in 2017 or 2018. All you need to do to enter, is send us a brief essay of 300 words max., of why you should be chosen. Please email entries to lleweddings@aol.com.

Contest is limited to weddings in Ohio, and immediate surrounding states. Entries must be in by midnight, April 1st, 2017. Winners will be announced by April 3rd, 2017. Those who are not selected as the winner of the Free Package, are still eligible for an offer of a discounted price on above stated package, or any other services that we offer. Good Luck!

Valentine’s Day Specials!

Don’t forget about our Valentine’s Day Specials:

Small Wedding (20 ppl or less) or Elopement Package available for $299. Good for 2017 weddings.

Engagement season special! Full Wedding Planning Package for $1199. Good for 2017 weddings.

Call us at 330-313-6030 or message us for more details. Offers end Feb. 15th, 2017.

Everyone that contacts us gets entered into a drawing for a $25 gift card!

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Why you need to hire a Wedding Planner

Educating yourself about a wedding planner (or consultant or coordinator), and what they do, is quickly becoming a required part of planning a wedding.   Many couples these days are planning long distance affairs, or have demanding work schedules that do not allow for endless meetings with vendors and locations for their wedding.  Often, couples have to make decisions quickly, and without as many choices of locations, materials, or referrals of vendors as they would really like.  This is where the knowledge and practical experience of a wedding planner becomes invaluable.

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Perhaps you have already heard or read some reasons why it is beneficial to hire a coordinator.  It’s true that we wear many hats in this industry.  We must be able to take on a wide variety of duties in order to serve the needs of our clients.  We are able to recommend vendors and service providers that we have worked with before.  We also help a client stay within their budget, often saving them money, and may advise them on wedding etiquette questions.  We can help clients shop for their wedding attire, as well as that of their wedding party.  We generally coordinate all of the client’s plans.  Of course, the biggest service we provide is to keep your rehearsal, wedding day and reception on track.  But I believe the most valuable service we provide is that of stress relief.  We are there to lift the burden from the clients’ shoulders, whether it is just making sure that the vendors have all arrived on time and are setting up the party to specifications, to calming any last minute nerves and offering words of encouragement.  We take care of any details that our clients wish, from just a sounding board when they are starting to plan, to searching out the best deals on locations, vendors, and materials.  We are the people that pick up the ball and run with it, to paraphrase a sports metaphor.  Our only job is to make sure our clients are completely happy, and that the event goes off flawlessly!

Even the most organized person will not wish to deal with lots of details on what is the most special day of their lives.  They may only want to go with the flow, and enjoy the day with family and friends.  That is where a wedding coordinator comes in.  We do the worrying for you!

Happy Engagement Season!

Happy Engagement Season! Check out our Holiday Specials!!

Engaged Couples: Take advantage of our best deal! Save 50% off of our Full-Service Wedding Planning Package!! This is only good until December 31st, 2016. Hurry!!

We offer Gift Certificates! Starting at $25 and up, these can be used for supplies or services for your next event!

Christmas Special: Book any wedding, party, or other event before December 31st, 2016, and receive either a FREE Candy Buffet or Popcorn Buffet for your guests, or save $200 on Planning Services! Please message us for more details or questions. Cheers!

Phone: 330-313-6030 or email: lleweddings@aol.com

 

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Massillon High School Craft & Vendor Show – 12/3/16

On Saturday, December 3rd, 2016, we were pleased to participate in the 2nd Annual Holiday Craft & Vendor Show at Washington High School in Massillon, Ohio.  This show is a huge fundraiser to benefit the Choral Program.  There were over 60 unique crafters, bakers, and direct sales vendors at this show, which was well attended.  We were happy to assist the organizers in preparation of the show.  Below are some pictures from our booth, which was elegantly dressed in navy and gold.  We offered information on our services, as well as gift certificates for sale, which always makes the perfect gift.  We also provided a raffle basket giveaway.  We are looking forward to assisting again for the next event.  Go Tigers!

 

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