We have been mentioned on Martha Stewart Weddings!

We have been blessed again, to have been mentioned in an article on Martha Stewart Weddings!  Thank you so much to Jenn Sinrich!!  Please enjoy!

http://www.marthastewartweddings.com/618253/what-to-do-during-wedding-planning-disagreements

AUGUST 14, 2017

What to Do If You and Your Partner Disagree Over Wedding Planning

Don’t let it get the best of you!

Contributing Writer
Couple Arguing

Photography by: Getty Images

Disagreements and arguments are normal—even healthy—aspects of any relationship. That’s especially true when you’re dealing with something as stressful as planning a wedding. Appeasing both families, creating the guest list, and choosing the venue can leave you feeling pitted against each other rather quickly. “Emotions are running high, way too many people are meddling in your life because of the event, and the logistics are crazy-making—if you didn’t have a fightbefore the wedding, it would be unusual!” says April Masini, New York-based relationship and etiquette expert.

 

But even if it’s normal to disagree while planning your wedding, no couple wants to feel resentment towards their partner. To help minimize fighting, we reached out to relationship and wedding experts for their best tips for keeping the peace.

 

WHAT YOU & YOUR FIANCÉ WILL FIGHT ABOUT BEFORE THE WEDDING ACCORDING TO REAL COUPLES

 

Listen to one another.

This involves more than simply hearing what your partner has to say (even when you don’t like it.) You should also try to understand what your partner is trying to say and how he or she truly feels. “If you can’t listen to each other now, this will most likely be an issue in the future,” says Cristen Faherty, wedding and event planner at Cristen & Co Event Coordination & Design. And it’s not just about listening, but also about communication patiently. “This will help you better understand one another and resolve big and small issues quickly so you can move on to happier moments.”

 

Make a list.

“Whatever the topic of debate is, write it down,” says Kimberly Lehman, wedding and event planner at Love, Laughter & Elegance. “Break it down into sections for discussion and go over each subject individually.” For example, if the argument is over the budget, list out your individual priorities for the celebration and then discuss how you can come to an agreement on what’s most important. Another helpful strategy is to rate each item on your list on a scale of one to ten (ten being a very strong preference) to show its importance to you, suggests Claudia Six, Ph.D., clinical sexologist and relationship coach. For example: “I want my ex-wife’s parents to attend, and that’s an eight for me. I feel pretty strongly about it.” The other person may say: “My objection to your ex-wife’s parents being there is a two, so let’s invite them.” You rate your preferences and go with the highest rated option.

 

Delegate whenever possible.

“There will be wedding-related tasks that one person, or both, just do not wish to take on, such as choosing table linens or floral arrangements,” says Lehman. Her quick-fix? Consider the interests of each partner and then divide and conquer. “If your fiancé is a fan of local breweries and pub food, consider having him choose a craft beer as part of the cocktail hour, or selecting favorite appetizers to delight guests with.” When neither party feels compelled to decide on a certain aspect of the wedding, be it the flowers or the napkin fold, divvy those decisions up to family. Bottom line: Not everything has to be decided together.

 

Take a break for a while from planning.

In addition to being exciting, wedding planning comes with its fair share of stressful moments. If you and your partner find that wedding stress is getting in the way, or leaving you with less time to enjoy being engaged, plan an escape. “This could be something as simple as a romantic dinner together or taking off on a weekend trip,” says Lehman. “Rediscover all of the parts of each other’s personality that made falling in love so enjoyable.”

 

Focus on the big picture.

“Remember that you’re planning a day, but it’s the life beyond that day that truly matters,” says Nikki Martinez, Psy.D., LCPC, a clinical psychologist and couple’s counselor. “This day is a celebration, and it is symbolic, but it is only a day, and the planning and execution of it is something that you are supposed to enjoy.” Her advice is to not let it create undue stress or drive a wedge between the two of you. Remember that it’s the rest of your life after that day that matters. “Keep things in perspective and don’t let too much weight be on this event, enjoy it, because hopefully you will only do it once.”

 

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We have been featured on Wedding Colors blog!

We have been extremely blessed to have our work published on the Wedding Colors blog!  

We recently produced a styled photo shoot, with a Lilly Pulitzer inspired theme.  Working together with the talented Brittany of Brittany Shelley Photography, our gorgeous models Lauren and Brandon, we spun the story of a surprise  Engagement Brunch.  Original artwork was provided by the gifted young artist Annika Lehman, the beautiful stationery was provided by Angela Marie Giaco of A Pink Sunset, and adorable cake topper was provided by Lexi Eveleth of Ever Laser.  Baked goods were provided by the talented staff at our local Giant Eagle Bakery.  We shot on location in Sippo Lake Park, in Canton, Ohio.  Please enjoy!

http://weddingcolors.net/lilly-pulitzer-inspired-engagement-brunch.html

 

A LILLY PULITZER INSPIRED ENGAGEMENT BRUNCH

Bright and colorful, with floral prints  and a bit of tropical flare – this Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch captured by Brittany Shelley Photography, and planned by Love, Laughter & Elegance, intrigued me at first glance. What a fun way to announce your engagement to your family and friends. An outdoor engagement party filled with vibrant color, fun accessories and yummy food. And when cocktails topped with mini paper umbrellas are being served you know you’re in for some fun.

From the photographer, Brittany Shelley Photography: This album story is about Lauren and Brandon, a real couple who were the perfect fit for this styled session. Lauren and Brandon plan on getting married soon so a perfect surprise engagement brunch was much needed with friends and family by their side. Their friends and family have not arrived yet. Lauren loves bold and bright colors so a Lilly Pulitzer theme was perfect for this brunch. Lauren gathered together her bridesmaid gifts in the colors that matched their table settings. These gifts were a way of asking her friends to be her bridesmaids. Lauren and Brandon are the sweetest! We wish them and their family the best as they celebrate their new life together 🙂

 

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

A Lilly Pulitzer Inspired Engagement Brunch|Photographer: Brittany Shelley Photography

 

Day of Wedding Coordination Giveaway!

img_20161203_191019***Special Announcement!***

We are giving away a FREE Day of Coordination Package to one Lucky Couple! May be applied to any wedding in 2017 or 2018. All you need to do to enter, is send us a brief essay of 300 words max., of why you should be chosen. Please email entries to lleweddings@aol.com.

Contest is limited to weddings in Ohio, and immediate surrounding states. Entries must be in by midnight, April 1st, 2017. Winners will be announced by April 3rd, 2017. Those who are not selected as the winner of the Free Package, are still eligible for an offer of a discounted price on above stated package, or any other services that we offer. Good Luck!

Why you need to hire a Wedding Planner

Educating yourself about a wedding planner (or consultant or coordinator), and what they do, is quickly becoming a required part of planning a wedding.   Many couples these days are planning long distance affairs, or have demanding work schedules that do not allow for endless meetings with vendors and locations for their wedding.  Often, couples have to make decisions quickly, and without as many choices of locations, materials, or referrals of vendors as they would really like.  This is where the knowledge and practical experience of a wedding planner becomes invaluable.

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Perhaps you have already heard or read some reasons why it is beneficial to hire a coordinator.  It’s true that we wear many hats in this industry.  We must be able to take on a wide variety of duties in order to serve the needs of our clients.  We are able to recommend vendors and service providers that we have worked with before.  We also help a client stay within their budget, often saving them money, and may advise them on wedding etiquette questions.  We can help clients shop for their wedding attire, as well as that of their wedding party.  We generally coordinate all of the client’s plans.  Of course, the biggest service we provide is to keep your rehearsal, wedding day and reception on track.  But I believe the most valuable service we provide is that of stress relief.  We are there to lift the burden from the clients’ shoulders, whether it is just making sure that the vendors have all arrived on time and are setting up the party to specifications, to calming any last minute nerves and offering words of encouragement.  We take care of any details that our clients wish, from just a sounding board when they are starting to plan, to searching out the best deals on locations, vendors, and materials.  We are the people that pick up the ball and run with it, to paraphrase a sports metaphor.  Our only job is to make sure our clients are completely happy, and that the event goes off flawlessly!

Even the most organized person will not wish to deal with lots of details on what is the most special day of their lives.  They may only want to go with the flow, and enjoy the day with family and friends.  That is where a wedding coordinator comes in.  We do the worrying for you!

Massillon High School Craft & Vendor Show – 12/3/16

On Saturday, December 3rd, 2016, we were pleased to participate in the 2nd Annual Holiday Craft & Vendor Show at Washington High School in Massillon, Ohio.  This show is a huge fundraiser to benefit the Choral Program.  There were over 60 unique crafters, bakers, and direct sales vendors at this show, which was well attended.  We were happy to assist the organizers in preparation of the show.  Below are some pictures from our booth, which was elegantly dressed in navy and gold.  We offered information on our services, as well as gift certificates for sale, which always makes the perfect gift.  We also provided a raffle basket giveaway.  We are looking forward to assisting again for the next event.  Go Tigers!

 

Check out our Holiday Specials!

Check out our Holiday Specials:

We offer gift wrapping, gift shopping, and Holiday Card services!

We offer Gift Certificates! Starting at $25 and up, these can be used for supplies or services for your next event!

Christmas Special: Book any wedding, party, or other event before December 31st, 2016, and receive either a FREE Candy Buffet or Popcorn Buffet for your guests, or save $200 on Planning Services!

Please message us for more details or questions. Cheers!

Phone: 330-313-6030 email: lleweddings@aol.com

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Book any event, get free goodies!

Christmas Special: Book any wedding, party, or other event before December 31st, 2016, and receive either a FREE Candy Buffet or Popcorn Buffet for your guests, or save $200 on Planning Services! Please message us for more details or questions. Cheers!

Phone:  330-313-6030

email:  lleweddings@aol.com

 

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